My "help" quote that I send with the boys.

"Every day you're not dead in the ground, when you wake up in the morning, you're gonna have to make some decisions. Got to ask yourself this question: "Am I gonna believe all them bad things them fools say about me today?" You hear me today? "Am I gonna believe all them bad things them fools say about me today? You hear me today?" All right? As for your mama, she didn't pick her life. It picked her. But you, you're gonna do something big with yours. You wait and see." Each day I speak to my children at night individually , quietly. I try to tell them each something that they will remember when I am gone. That they can look back on and say " my mom loved me". We are not here forever, we must instill the bond so that even when gone, they feel that love wrapped around them as tight as if we were standing there.